tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post7876832842385774606..comments2023-10-05T08:09:52.888-05:00Comments on Living in that blonde moment: Dear John: It is time to move onMorganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02765043671178021388noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-71132260125184819532011-01-10T21:10:46.597-06:002011-01-10T21:10:46.597-06:00It absolutely ASTOUNDS me how many people go throu...It absolutely ASTOUNDS me how many people go through this exact same thing.<br /><br />I have so much that I could write on this subject, but it exhausts me beyond words..so instead, I'll just say this...I've been there, I understand.Daydreaming Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01126610885898239043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-63862361736241897092011-01-08T20:03:07.069-06:002011-01-08T20:03:07.069-06:00HW-I honestly believe that insecurities cause riff...HW-I honestly believe that insecurities cause riffs between people. Having to end conversations on such notes is painful and probably not missed at all! That and your husband sounds like my brother in law. It must be a guy mentality and what makes men so different from women. Thank goodness for them!<br /><br />Kimberly-I love this, people do come and go and with each interaction brings an experience to learn from. That is exactly how I'm looking at this and able to keep a positive outlook about letting this one go and how to avoid situations like this should they appear in the future.<br /><br />Ashley-Thanks! A friend that I finally did make here so far got me out of the house today and into her store for a tarot reading. Spooky!! The guy was accurate but of course it was taken lightly.....and I walked out with another sweater.Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02765043671178021388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-42372487982898367312011-01-08T19:20:44.263-06:002011-01-08T19:20:44.263-06:00Good for you!! That is no fun when you are in a o...Good for you!! That is no fun when you are in a one-way friendship. Some people just suck! I hope you find some better friends!!Ashaleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12757211956125112238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-91447693449463228652011-01-08T19:16:05.806-06:002011-01-08T19:16:05.806-06:00In 2010, I came to the conclusion that I needed to...In 2010, I came to the conclusion that I needed to let go of a few relationships and it seemed petty and tired, but I did it. I found that not only was I unhappy with my friends, but I wasn't happy with how I felt towards them. I couldn't accept them and knew that it was time to move on. People come in and out of our lives all the time to teach us things; my time with these people had come to an end.<br /><br />It's not easy, but you should be proud that you put your needs first and did something to make yourself happy.Kimberly Gauthier, Dog Nutrition Blogger for Keep the Tail Wagginghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07021211954887075184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-54843126061266181522011-01-08T17:29:07.405-06:002011-01-08T17:29:07.405-06:00WOW.
I de-friened someone last year. We had been ...WOW.<br /><br />I de-friened someone last year. We had been friends for five or six years. The last two years of it though, weren't so peachy. We lived in different cities but talked on the phone almost daily. I always felt like she was competitive - boyfriends, children, jobs. I never understood it. We're friends, right? Aren't we just supposed to support each other? Toward the end of our friendship, nearly every time we hung up the phone, I was crying. My husband, who stays out of EVERYTHING, even said, "why do you do this to yourself? what do you get out of it?" I couldn't answer the question ... so I knew it was time to part ways. Not easy but it had to be done.<br /><br />I hope that you're still able to see the good - it's not easy to remove people from your life sometimes but you'll be all the better for it.<br /><br />And thank you for the e-mail. I'll respond tomorrow when I have more time. You are beyond sweet.Hockey Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02288216293484190139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-82667433067815841752011-01-08T17:02:39.120-06:002011-01-08T17:02:39.120-06:00KY-Since 2nd grade...are YOU okay?? True colors/tr...KY-Since 2nd grade...are YOU okay?? True colors/true friends. I am so sorry that you're going through this too. It stinks and is a pain....but.... your new year statement is the best thing ever! It's super positivo and keeps you moving forward. Whoever wants to join in on your ride, all aboard. If not, it's their loss. <br /><br />Patti B-Thanks for stopping by-stay as long as you'd like : ) Me x 1 week ago was in fact ignoring the calls deciding on how to act, I have always been that person who can't ever say no even if someone treats me like garbage. I guess it's fear of karma. Who knows. This can go on for eons but enough was enough. <br /><br />Feeling stacks better after spending the day with the company of others.Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02765043671178021388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-67233367704279536042011-01-08T15:09:37.114-06:002011-01-08T15:09:37.114-06:00Hi Morgan! I'm visiting from the SITS forum a...Hi Morgan! I'm visiting from the SITS forum at BlogFrog. Breaking off a friendship is not easy for me either. I usually take the coward's way out and just don't respond to phone calls, and never formally tell them I don't want to be their friend anymore.Patti B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09495355974060893935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-464948243592081907.post-29028654021664454772011-01-08T14:16:09.260-06:002011-01-08T14:16:09.260-06:00I just broke up with a friend via facebook chat ye...I just broke up with a friend via facebook chat yesterday. My best friend since 2nd grade, actually. Very similar situation (and incredibly impersonal!) ...awfully tough, but as I declare it a Happy New Year to ME...it is the best thing that could have happened. :/ Feeling ya, girlfriend!!Kym @ Travel Babbleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08820908415315702778noreply@blogger.com